I watched, up close and personal, as my boyfriend got his dick sucked by another woman I actually kind of enjoyed it. Even when you have said fantasies constantly, every hour of every day, and have had them for years. Or at least without any planning on my part. This article originally appeared on AlterNet. But you know, except for the third-grader part, it was sort of like that. At the time of the orgy, we were supposedly trying nonmonogamy
Khaleesi. Age: 30.
Even when you have said fantasies constantly, every hour of every day, and have had them for years.
Kyndall. Age: 29.
The orgy that changed my life
And it occurred to me: My problem with my boyfriend cheating on me wasn't a problem with him having sex with other people. I just need to feel like my feelings are being taken into consideration; like I'm involved in the decisions; like my major triggers will be worked around even if they're not rational. It was with him blatantly trying to seduce other women in front of my face, even though he knew it upset me. Even when you have said fantasies constantly, every hour of every day, and have had them for years.
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